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		<title>White Men as Inclusion, Diversity, &#038; Equity (IDE) Partners</title>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p style="font-size: 14px">In this blog, we hear from <a href="https://www.inclusity.com/meet-the-team/#patrick-hughes" class="inline-link" style="font-size: 14px">Patrick Hughes</a>, a facilitator with Inclusity. He openly shares his perspective as a white male in the IDE space; he fits into almost every in-norm, dominant social identifier in our society. Patrick addresses the “elephant in the room” right upfront: ”Hi, I’m Patrick. I’m a white guy with a lot of privilege, and I’m fully committed to inclusion.” </p>

<h2>How did you first get involved in inclusion, diversity, &#038; equity (IDE)?</h2>
My journey began about 13 years ago when I was completing a master’s program in organizational development. One of the courses was called “Use of Self as an Agent of Change.” We spent a week looking at social identity theory and how who we are impacts our ability to work with organizations, individuals, and teams. This was my first exposure to concepts related to IDE. This was the first time that anyone told me that all of my social identifiers and who I am walking around unconsciously impacts others, potentially in a negative way.</p>

<h2>As a white male, what role do you play in IDE efforts?</h2>
<p>I see myself as a partner, ally, and interrupter. I look at my role as partnering up with other people to make things happen, not leading the charge. I’m constantly looking at how I can be an ally for any marginalized group because I live in so many privileged categories and in-norm groups. I’m looking for ways to partner with or be an ally to folks that aren’t in-norm groups, so I can create inclusion. Also, because of this awarded privilege that I sometimes have, I look for ways to interrupt conversations that may be creating exclusion. I think about how I can use the voice that I’m given because of my gender and skin color to elevate others. </p>

<h2>What are some of the lessons learned from engaging in IDE work?</h2>
<p>I’ve learned a lot around how to be empathetic and how to hear and value others’ emotions and experiences. When I work with individuals and groups, I want to hear feedback so I can grow and create safe space where we can have relationship and dialogue. I’m not reluctant to initiate and engage in difficult conversations. Through the difficult conversations come strengthened partnerships and new insights. But, this must be authentic. If you engage in this way and don’t mean it, you’ll do more harm than good.</p>

<h2>How do we engage white males in IDE efforts?</h2>
<p>We need to disarm white men and create a safe space for them to share emotions around feeling excluded in IDE. If we don’t validate their experiences and feelings around exclusion, the overall objective of ensuring that everyone feels connected and valued will fail. White men need to see themselves as part of the solution – not part of the problem where they feel blamed and vilified. </p>

<h2>What have you personally gained from working in the IDE space?</h2>
<p>I’ve gained a richer life experience and deeper relationships. I’ve gained new perspectives that enable me to be a better leader. I now walk around this world from a conscious place as opposed to unconsciously through my socializations. The socializations and biases that I grew up with are not who I want to be in the world. For me, creating inclusion is creating the world that I want where everyone feels valued and empowered. Previously, I thought I was creating the world I wanted only to realize that there’s unconscious bias getting in the way of that. I wanted to create empowered teams and be a leader that everyone loved and admired, but I wasn’t. I was exhibiting behaviors that were contrary to what I wanted to create.</p>

<h2>Why are diversity and inclusion everyone’s responsibility, including white males?</h2>
<p>We cannot build inclusion if we’re excluding anyone. White men absolutely need to be at the table. They have the opportunity to leverage much of the power and privilege that they have been given to further the efforts of creating inclusion to benefit everyone. However, white men must be willing to step into uncomfortable situations and embrace change to make this happen. It can feel scary because the world has been set up to benefit them, so why should they want to change. Sometimes you have to risk a little bit to gain a lot. Once I was willing to risk alienating some friends and colleagues or being seen as a traitor or outcast, I found a whole new world open up to me on the other side. That world of inclusion now entails deeper relationships, more productive teams, and exponential growth in my leadership abilities. </p></div>
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		<title>Change Through Courage</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2018 14:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Women’s History Month is a time to commemorate the many contributions of women – from bringing social change to creating music and making scientific discoveries. It’s a chance to celebrate pioneers who have made a real and lasting impact on the world. One of the cornerstones for change can be seen through the work of [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Women’s History Month is a time to commemorate the many contributions of women – from bringing social change to creating music and making scientific discoveries. It’s a chance to celebrate pioneers who have made a real and lasting impact on the world. One of the cornerstones for change can be seen through the work of pioneers for diversity who have helped rewrite history and shape the countless conversations on this topic today.</p>
<p>As we page through the annals of history, there are stories of individuals that evoke emotions within us for different reasons. But why? Although often not easily explained, the common thread appears to be “courage.”</p>
<h4><strong>Confronting “Isms” in the ’70s</strong></h4>
<p>Elsie Cross can indeed be counted among the courageous— a trailblazer traveling a circuitous path toward critical change initiatives in the field of diversity. Cross’s story began in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania where she grew up as the daughter of an undertaker in predominantly white neighborhoods around Philadelphia during the ’30s and ’40s. She was one of only two black women to enroll in business administration at Temple University in 1948. However, without the offer of a corporate position, she worked in various clerical jobs in the ’50s before becoming a teacher at an all-girl school in Philadelphia. In the 1970s she moved into consulting, and her firm worked with a notable list of clients, including Bell Laboratories, American Express and Exxon. In fact, at the pinnacle of her career, companies paid over half a million dollars per year for her D&amp;I program.</p>
<p>At the centerpiece of Cross’s work with corporations was a three-day “intervention” workshop. Through interactive engagement, role-playing, lectures and directed discussions, the workshop provided a safe environment to examine tough subjects like racism and sexism, fear around attitudes, what beliefs support these &#8220;isms,&#8221; and what tools and next steps can be taken to move forward.</p>
<p>Flash forward four decades and it is seems clear that much work in D&amp;I continues to have a similar focus. For example, Inclusity has a<a href="https://www.inclusity.com/InclusityLAB.pdf"> three/four-day workshop</a> designed to prepare individuals and teams who will serve as the guiding coalition for change efforts. Although the parallels between the workshops may only serve to substantiate how slowly the needle is moving, it is my feeling this confirms Cross was a Renaissance woman laying the groundwork for what was and continues to be important work.</p>
<h4><strong>The Color of Your Eyes</strong></h4>
<p>In April 1968, a third grade teacher from Iowa embarked on an endeavor that would change not only the course of her life, but the lives of countless others. The assassination of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., a man who she greatly admired, was the turning point for Jane Elliott. His tragic death devastated her, and she was appalled to perceive a lack of understanding for what the black community was experiencing.</p>
<p>Soon after, Elliott decided “this was the time to teach them what the Sioux Indian prayer says: ‘Oh great spirit keep me from every judging a man until I’ve walked a mile in his moccassins.’ ” As Elliott grappled with a method to challenge her students’ racist attitudes in the classroom, she decided to combine the lessons of the Native Americans and Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. — this came to be known as the “Blue Eyes, Brown Eyes” exercise.</p>
<p>The premise was to treat each group differently based solely on the color of their eyes. Elliott explains in a 2016 interview with Rock Newman that she chose eye color because it was a physical characteristic that could not be changed and over which one has no control. She went on to describe the stage she set for the exercise; she lowered one group’s expectations while building up the other group of children. She did this by first declaring the brown-eyed children as smarter, more civilized, and cleaner; she gave them special privileges. On day two, the blue-eyed children became the “superior” group, while she treated the brown-eyed children lesser than. One of the interesting observations from her exercise was that the blue-eyed children who had been treated as inferiors the first day and were now in the superior group on day two treated the brown-eyed children with more kindness.</p>
<p>Elliott shared that her goal when she designed the exercise was for her students to be less ignorant about race than she was. However, what unfolded on that day in a classroom of third graders forever changed the life of Jane Elliott. She said she discovered what it was like “to be tolerated” and<em> “</em>life will never be the same<em>.</em>”</p>
<p>Elliott’s worldview was forever changed, as was her professional trajectory, becoming a diversity trainer after leaving her teaching career. She estimates she has conducted this activity over 1,000 times since that day – 50 years ago this April. While her “Brown Eyes, Blue Eyes” exercise on racism has been touted, criticized and emulated, its lessons remain timeless and Elliot continues her mission to end racism to this day.</p>
<h4><strong>Recognize the Courageous</strong></h4>
<p>We have only started down the road to learning about the many luminaries in diversity field. It is important to remember and reflect on the past and recognize those that have had the courage to step forward, teach others and make a difference. As we have come to realize, creating a diverse workspace is a starting point; inclusion is the future of diversity.</p>
<p><span style="color: #999999;">Transform Your Culture. Create Inclusion.</span></p>
<p><em>&#8211;<a href="mailto:stacy@inclusity.com"> Stacy Shew</a></em></p>
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